ok
, do this..
goto [START]>[RUN]
type into box 'cmd' and press enter
a dos box will open ? black window with some text inside kk
type into this box 'ipconfig' press [ENTER]
write down the > Default Gateway IP address.
(you are going to need a username/password) for the next part.
open up IE or Firefox/Chrome and enter into the AddressBar (where you type
www.somesite.com) and enter the 'Default Gateway IP' their. Press [ENTER]
the username in most cases will be 'Admin' but the password you will need to ring ISP or check paper-work that came with modem.
alrighty once you are into your modem settings page ...
you will need to go here:
http://portforward.com/english/route...outerindex.htm
scroll Down and Select your Modem/Router from the List.
make sure you select the exact one.
After clicking on your Router/Modem you will be presented with a 'SPAM PAGE' and at the top right it will say 'Click here to skip this advertisement...'
click that and you will be taken to the games List Page.
Scroll Down to Unrealtournament or press (CTRL+F) and type 'unreal tournament' DO-NOT PRESS ENTER this will FIND it on the page for you.
Make sure that it is NOT for XBOX or some other Console. and click on it.
click on Unreal Tournament link and the following page will step you through opening the correct ports on your router.
DO NOT OPEN ALL PORTS! only the ones specified in the list BOTH UDP and TCP !
Good Luck.