I think you guys missed it..
His network layout is wonky, the way I read it.. looks like this;
(server)-+---(switch)----(his box)-----('net/modem)
(other)--+
or..
(his box)--+
(server)----+--(switch)---('net)
(other)-----+
..with his box routing?
In either case this is trash.
(his box)--+--(switch)---(server)----('net)
(other)----+
..is the only decent setup.
I also have a feeeling he is using more than one ME
!
Even '96 with WinGate would be better, but still TRASH!
Blow the server, put in Linux, Win2k or NT and bite the learning curve.
Then you have something that works and is useful!
..or just drop it and go skate boarding.
(Its late, I may have miss-read it)
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